Want to know what your friends, followers or crush really think about you — without them being afraid to hurt your feelings? Here is the complete method, step by step.
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Why people never tell you the truth
Ask a friend "be honest, what do you think of me?" and you will get… politeness. It's human: nobody wants to hurt you, or to own a criticism face to face. As a result, the most useful feedback — and the most sincere compliments — stay locked in people's heads.
That is exactly what the secret message solves: when the sender knows their identity stays hidden, they finally dare to write what they really think. Compliments get more genuine, feedback more useful, and declarations… braver.
Step 1 — Create your personal link
Sign up free on Saraha Mobile with Google or your e-mail. Pick a username: it becomes your personal link, like sarahamobile.com/yourname. This link is your mailbox: anyone who opens it can write to you, without creating an account, and without you knowing who they are.
Step 2 — Share your link where your friends are
- Instagram / TikTok bio: spot number one. Add a call to action: "Tell me what you think of me 👀 link in bio".
- Instagram or Snapchat story: share the link with a link sticker. Stories create urgency: 24 hours to answer.
- WhatsApp groups: paste your link in your friend groups — that is where replies come fastest.
- WhatsApp status: seen by all your contacts, zero effort.
Step 3 — Get more replies (the techniques that work)
Ask a specific question
"Send me a message" works far less than "What is your first memory of us?" or "Tell me something you would never say to my face". The more specific the question, the easier it is to answer. Need inspiration? Grab one of our 50 question ideas.
Reply publicly to the best messages
When you receive a message you love, answer it with a shareable story card (built into the app). People who see your reply understand it works… and write to you too. That loop is what makes your inbox take off.
Re-share regularly
A single share gets forgotten. The people who receive the most messages re-share their link once or twice a week, with a fresh question every time.
What if I get a mean message?
It can happen — and it's covered. On Saraha Mobile every message goes through a filter before sending, you can block any sender in one tap (even with a hidden identity) and report any abuse, reviewed within 24 hours. Read our anti-bullying guide to protect yourself effectively.
In short
- Create your free account and grab your link sarahamobile.com/yourname
- Put it in your bios and share it in stories with a specific question
- Answer the best messages with a public card to receive even more
- Block and report without hesitation: honesty yes, meanness no